From: Chuck Wickstrom [chuckswagon@comcast.net]
Sent: Sat 9/13/2008 2:43
PM
Subject: Delayed check in
Where do I begin? I guess
back in July of 1958 when I entered the Army where I spent the next three
years in New Jersey, Georgia, Germany, and finally Maryland. I spent almost
2 years in southern Germany with the 7th US Army Division. I loved Germany
and did a lot of traveling to different parts of then West Germany. It
was an experience that I still carry with me.
After the Army I came back
to Plainville where I worked at Royal Typewriter up in Hartford where I
served an apprenticeship in tool & die. In 1966 I went to Pratt &
Whitney Aircraft for two years then went to work for Sundown Electric out
of Bristol where I served another apprenticeship for electrician. I worked
the trade until 1978 and went back to Pratt and stayed there until my retirement
in 2002 where I worked as a machine tool technician.
In the interim I married my
first wife in 1964 and have a daughter Marie and two beautiful grand daughters
Kelsey and Sara. On my second marriage, which lasted about 20 years, I
have 3 children, Lisa, Cheryl, and Kevin. Lisa is my yuppie and is still
single living in Simsbury. My daughter Cheryl is married and has a daughter
Haley. My Son Kevin has two daughters Taylor and Grace. In 2004 I married
my 3rd wife (I know, "What is wrong with this man?") Joann who is my love
and life. We have traveled in Europe, Canada, and the US coast to coast
and are blessed with good health and happiness.
Hobbies are fishing, hunting,
gardening, cooking, music, traveling. Looking forward to the Class reunion
next month.
God Bless,
Tom Wickstrom
......ps I haven't used the
name Tom, it is really my middle name, since high school. My first name
is Charles so I go by Chuck and have the nick name 'Cookie'. (I love cooking
and do it all at home, the Wife & family love it to.) God Bless, Chuck
(Tommy) Wickstrom
(Webmaster: It was fun
to meet Chuck and Joann at our 45th Reunion in 2004. Looking forward to
seeing them again in October. JRT)
From: Louise Stokosa
Sent: Mon 7/23/2007
1:35 PM
Subject: HI
Both my husband and I are
retired and enjoying it, although we seem to be more busy than ever!
We moved about 2 1/2 years ago not too far from where we lived before.
It took us a year to find the house we wanted. As my mother (92 now)
was going to be living with us, we wanted a ranch.
We have a large yard with
a small vegetable and flower garden, plus two other small flower beds.
We love to sit on our deck and bird watch. I presently have four
feeders up. The birds are bringing their young to teach them to eat
on their own.
In February we went to see
our son in Tucson, Arizona. We went out to celebrate our grandaughter's
eighth birthday. So we missed all the snow you had here at that time.
It was a little chilly out there, especially in the evening. It was
only in the 70's. Our grandson who lives in Manchester celebrated
his sixth birthdy with us. He loves to come see us.
Thanks
Louise H. Stokosa |
From: Robert Whelan [robert_whelan@umit.maine.edu]
Sent: Sun 5/20/2007
3:52 PM
Subject: Re: Class Advisory:
A couple of points....
Hi everyone,
I'm now on partial-phased
retirement, teaching at UMaine in the fall but not in the spring.
I went to the Florida Keys this winter for a month. I haven't taken
a long road trip since the 70's and it was fun driving down, and no weather
problems.
Great
to see other states of the country, especially ones I've lived in.
I went right by two forts where I had been statoned, Ft Bragg NC and Ft
Jackson, SC. My brother, Rick, (PHS in 62) and his wife joined me
as did my wife, Surah and daughter, Rose. Surah was there for only
5 days, Rose for 8 and Rick for 7. Rose is at BC Law School
and couldn't leave the Keys on her scheduled flight as it was cancelled
due to the weather, so she got two more days of vacation from school.
I had a great time fishing, kayaking and biking. I brought my canoe
down which was a big mistake - a bit too windy to move easily in
a canoe; the kayak I borrowed down there from a friend worked much
better. I've attached two pictures, one of some fish Rick
(pictured at right) and I caught. My fish is an everyday grouper,
but Rick's is a prize African Pompano, very delicious. The other
is a picture of a four foot barracuda I caught in the flats off Big Pine
Key. My guide, Bruce Chard, is holding it because he knows how clumsy
I am and didn't want me to get bitten by those monstrous teeth. Catching
the fish was awesome. After I hooked it, it jumped about 10' in front
of the boat. What a show! It took me about 10 minutes to get
it to the boat. If you ever want a flats guide in the Keys, Bruce
is the man -- he always finds fish. I'mplanning another Keys trip
this summer and then another month in the winter.
I'm
also volunteering at the Fields Pond Nature Center, conducting short nature
walks. Also going to do some trout and salmon fishing in the Maine
North Woods when the weather gets better and the fish start biting more
aggressively. I have two more years on the partial retirement and
end up teaching in the fall of 2008, then I'll be free of any job responsibilities.
We have no plans to move from
our house in Orono, ME. We love it, but wish the Maine springs were
a bit more gentle. I returned from the Keys on March 20 and a week
later we had 16 inches of snow. I knew I should have stayed longer.
Hope all is well with you.
Bob
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From:
edlolall@aol.com
Sent: Tue 4/3/2007
2:26 PM
Subject: CHECKING IN
HI RALPH,
JUST TO LET YOU KNOW THAT
LOLA & I ARE STILL KICKING. WE ARE NOW VERY BUSY IN REHEARSAL MODE
WITH THE PLAINVILLE CHORAL SOCIETY, WE WILL BE PRESENTING
THE MUSIC MAN
IN MAY, SO SPREAD THE WORD, THE DATES ARE SAT, MAY 12, 2:00 PM. & MAY
18 & 19 AT 7:00 PM,
IT WILL BE PERFORMED IN THE
NEWLY RENOVATED P.H.S . AUDITORIUM. ITS A GREAT SHOW, LOLA HAS A MAJOR
ROLE IN IT, YOURS TRULY IS PART OF THE BARBERSHOP QUARTET IN THE SHOW.
HOPE TO SEE YOU THERE.
ON A SADDER NOTE, ANOTHER
ONE OF OUR OLD TEACHERS DIED LAST WEEK,MISS. EVENLYN COOKE PASSED
AWAY,SHE WAS 86,SHE WAS MY TEACHER IN OUR SENIOR YEAR IN THE PROBLEMS OF
DEMOCRACY CLASS.
HOPE TO CATCH YOU DOWN THE
ROAD.
ED & LOLA WISHART |
Thursday,
29 March 2007.
Hi gang!
Well, I took the
'giant step', a year ago now, and retired from my second career: 21 years
with Raytheon and before that 22 years with the Air Force. Good God, that's
an eternity! But what memories... Please note that I said that I
retired from my second career. I am not fully retiring. I can't afford
to do that... Rosemary is too expensive. She is definitely high maintenance.
I do miss my European
friends (associated with my work in Europe for Raytheon), the Germans,
the Spaniards, the Danes. We'll be joining some of them in Rome on the
19th of April for a long weekend. It will be good to see them once again.
Rosemary and I will stay on to do some of the things that we've always
wanted to do in Rome but never had time to.
Rosemary and I
are doing quite well. We still talk now and then of our Class Reunion in
2003. That was fun, for sure. So, for the past year, I took that time to
work on some of my genealogy and history projects that I had not been able
to work because of my 'day job'. I just completed a biography of my 4th
great-grandfather Charles. I feel good about that. But my genealogy work
still beckons (I've been getting hate mail from my Theriault cousins who
have been working with me on this. I try to divide my time on these projects
with other civic and parochial duties. Our parish was recently clustered
with two other parishes (one priest for the three parishes) and we are
looking to build a new church. It looks like that will take up some of
my time.
So my mornings
are generally spent in my Study with my weimarahner dog, Lili, either reading
or working correspondence or writing or updating my websites at my computer.
It's quiet time. Afternoons, Lili and I go for our daily walk and then
I get on with my other chores with my home projects or with the parish.
Rosemary is not
retired yet. She loves her work... so why should she quit? Besides
this gives me a chance to see what it's like to be a 'Kept Man'. I always
wondered... you know? I'm sure some of you guys probably also wondered.
As to the rest
of our family, well, my dear Mother passed away last June. It was a huge
lift to see some of you guys at the wake. Thanks, again. I don't think
that a day goes by that I don't think about her. She was a giant in our
family.Our two little girls are doing well. Nikie (married to her work
at AOL) is still in Oklahoma City while Jill and her husband Ron continue
close by with their two boys (21 and 19 now) and their horses. Jill continues
to be very active in the American Quarter Horse show circuit. Josh commutes
to Emerson College in Boston and Matt (19) is still trying to figure out
what he wants to do when he grows up. (Sound familiar?)
We make a point
of keeping up with our friends and relatives. In fact, I'm proud to say
that 3-4 years ago, I discovered (over the Internet) that my kindergarten
teacher (Mother Saint Conrad) was retired and still leading an active life
in Old Orchard Beach, Maine. So, I drop in on her periodically. We have
a tradition now of having lunch together during the Christmas season. She
goes by her given name now, Sister Olla Laplante. She was only 19 when
she took on my kindergarten class. Talk about gutsy, huh?
Last year as I
was winding down my career with Raytheon, I had a 'short' (12 month) assignment
in Fullerton, California. I loved it! Not just for the weather, but everyone
is Republican there. Unbelievable! Rosemary joined me now and then.
In fact, here's a photo of us with our friends, 'Earl' and Joannie. 'Earl'
is a good Catholic boy (altar boy, no less) from Greenwich, CT. He and
I worked the Space Shuttle program together in the Air Force. He's done
pretty well for himself. He is founder and now CEO of SSI Commercial Spaceport
in Lompoc, CA... the only commercial spaceport (so far) in the continental
US. If you live in southern California and see a fast-moving contrail heading
south on a polar orbit, it's probably one of Earl's launches. Our favorite
pastime when Rosemary and I lived in Santa Maria was wine-tasting... so
here we are reliving some of our fun times in the wineries of the Santa
Ynez valley. Great time!
I need to leave
room for the others on this page, so I must wrap this up. Let's keep in
touch.
Ralph
From:
Donald Pahl [dmpahl1@yahoo.com]
Dated:
Mon 1/23/2006 8:38 AM
Subj:
None
Hi.
I am
Barbara Wysocki's husband Donald. Some of you know me but for those
who do not know me. Hi.
Barb
and I are doing o.k. In the past year we sold our property in Florida,
a small building lot we bought in 1960. We were going to build there and
spend our retirement years down there but the hurricanes of late scared
us away from that idea.
We used
the money to invest in a home in Plainville and we are renting it to our
son. It is an older colonial and he loves it there.
Barb
is doing okay. Age has taken its toll on her though. She has a deteriorating
spine that has her in a lot of pain at times but she does not let it get
her down. She has her own stain glass bussiness. She has had it for 16
years now and she does very well with it. She does 3 or 4 craft shows a
year. She takes in about $400.00 a year with it. She will not get rich
but she loves to do it. She also took on a part-time job in the Plainville
school cafeterias. She works mostly at the middle school with Donna Burns
[Capperelli] and some times she works at the Plainville High School. She
goes in at 9:30 a.m. and gets out at 2:00p.m. She has fun with the kids.
I was
diagnosed with prostate cancer last year. I had the radiation seed plant
done in November and now there is no sign of cancer so everything is fine
there.
Well
that is it for now. Have a good day.
Donald
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From:
Robert Whelan [robert_whelan@umit.maine.edu]
Dated:
Sat 4/20/02 4:00 PM
Subj:
Re: PS
Hi Ralph,
Here's
my check-in. I hope you know how much our classmates appreciate all
that you're doing with the website. I know I certainly do.
Thank you. By the way, the pictures and everything is fine. So go
ahead and do whatever you do with the pictures and the other things I left
with you. I really enjoyed seeing you some weeks ago. Maybe
we can get together again when I'm down that way, or you can stop by when
you're back in Maine.
____________________________
After
graduating from PHS in 1958, I went to Bowdoin College in Brunswick, Maine.
My academic career was mediocre, but I enjoyed the school and the friends
I made there. I enrolled in ROTC on a whim and upon graduating in
1962 was commissioned as a 2d LT in the U.S. Army Infantry. I entered
active duty in November of 1962 after spending the summer knocking slag
off welds at Plainville Electrical Products, where my father was also employed;
not knocking slag off of welds I might add.
I had
no intention of staying in the service for a career when I went in, but
my first assignment was to the Infantry School at Ft. Benning, Georgia
where I began my training in the Infantry Officer's Basic Course.
After graduating, I volunteered for paratrooper school at Ft. Benning,
completed that training and then volunteered for Ranger School. I
received my Ranger Tab in April of 1963 and headed for the DMZ in Korea.
I served there as a platoon leader for a year. Having volunteered
for Special Forces when I was in Korea, I was assigned to the Special Warfare
Center at Ft. Bragg, North Carolina in April of 1964. There I trained to
become qualified as a Special Forces officer and went almost immediately
to Vietnam. In country, I commanded a four-man team that was assigned
a special mission in the Central Highlands, the details of which remain
murky, but basically we worked with the mountain tribes fighting the Viet
Cong. The mission lasted about three months. I was then
assigned
as the Executive officer of a Special Forces "A" Team in the foothills
of the Central Highlands. We opened up an area that had been under
Viet Cong control for six years. Our biggest worry was the
family of brown kraits living in the team house we built as they are deadly
poisonous snakes. When in camp, we tucked our mosquito nets beneath
our mattresses very tightly so they wouldn't share our bunks on the colder
nights.
I
returned to the States in January of 1965 and was assigned as a general's
aide de camp at Ft. Jackson, South Carolina. After doing that for
a little over a year, I commanded a training company which was training
infantry soldiers how to fight in Vietnam. I was married during this
time to Janet..., a southerner. Left there in 1967 for another Army
School at Ft. Benning, Georgia where my first child, a son, Devlin, was
born. And then back to Vietnam. This time I was in the Mekong
Delta as a District Senior Advisor. I advised a Vietnamese Major
on military and civilian operations. I was promoted to Major during
this tour. Being an advisor to the Vietnamese on both of my tours,
I learned to love the people and the culture, a love that remains as strong
today as it was 33 years ago.
Upon
returning from Vietnam, I was selected by the Army to attend graduate school
to obtain an MA in English in preparation for a tour as an instructor at
the United States Military Academy, West Point. I went to UMass,
Amherst, received my MA in 1971 and taught at West Point for three years.
My second child, a daughter, Shannon, was born there in November 1971.
My wife and I split in 1973, but I retained custody of the children.
Left West Point in 1974 and was assigned to be a student at Command and
General Staff College in Ft. Leavenworth, Kansas. Traveling across
country in an old VW hatchback as the only adult with two young children
was an experience I will not ever forget. After a year there I was
assigned as a plans and operations officer at Ft. Devens Mass. There
I was married again in 1976 to Surah..., originally from ...Mass.
I think she liked my kids, but we remain married to this day. My
tour at Devens was cut short as I was asked to return to West Point to
teach again and run the Fine Arts program. We stayed there for three
years and I was promoted to Lieutenant Colonel. The last assignment
in my 20-year Army career was as an Inspector General in Germany.
My last child, Rose was born there in the small German town of Kircheimbolanden
in the Pfalz region. I retired from the Army after 20 years, and
we all returned to the states in 1982 and moved to ...Maine. After
a few months of getting my bearings in the civilian world, I became an
instructor of English at (a college in) Maine. I have been here ...ever
since. I taught for a few years and then became the Executive
Assistant to the President in 1985, then Executive Assistant to the Vice
President for Academic Affairs and then Executive Assistant to the President
again. I stayed in the administration ... until 1997, when I decided
that I wanted to close out my career here teaching full time, a job I love
beyond all others. I remain active in Maine's veterans affairs being
affiliated with Vietnam Veterans of America both locally and statewide.
My
son, Devlin, is a chef in (a small town in) ...Maine. My daughter,
Shannon, is a free spirit in (that same area) ... and my daughter, Rose,
is a sophmore at (a) ...college in Los Angeles, which I might note is the
reason I am not retired now.... My wife, Surah, teaches at (a) ... college
in Maine (where we live).
If you're
in Maine, drop by or call us anytime. It's so great to reestablish
these contacts after so many years. Although my dad died five years
ago, my 93-year-old mom lives in (Connecticut) and is doing fine, living
by herself and still driving.
One last
item, I returned to Vietnam in 1995 to visit all the places I was assigned
and got to talk to some of the Viet Cong soldiers I fought against. It
was a wonderful experience and the old soldiers told me that they did not
hate Americans as I thought they must after all the damage we did.
They told me that we had all lived a page of history together and that
horrible things happened to and were done by both sides, but now it was
time to turn the page and let bygones be bygones, which was, of course,
exactly what I needed to hear.
Bob |