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IN
MEMORIAM
JAMES
R. KENURE
This biography
was written by Beth (Kenure) Powell, one of Jim's two daughters. Somehow
through good fortune, Beth discovered our website and was able to establish
contact with the class through Bob Zdunczyk, Ginny Hill Noel and Joe Dellaquila.
She said in her letter to us that she feels very fortunate to have connected
with her father's friends and that she wants to share with us the highlights
of his life without sounding too 'past-tense' because his spirit is very
much alive and constantly in her sister's thoughts and her thoughts as
well. The following are Beth's words...
After high school,
my father joined the Army. He traveled extensively throughout Europe and
often recounted his Army days in great detail. He loved Germany and went
back for visits after leaving the Army.
After the Army,
he met and married my mother, Barbara Pia from Torrington, Connecticut
in 1966. My sister, Lauren, was born in 1967 and I was born in 1970. He
held various jobs before he found his 'niche' and worked as a Project Engineer
for the Torrington Company.
In 1978, my father
was offered a wonderful opportunity by the Torrington Company (although
it did not seem wonderful to us at the time) to move to a small town in
south Georgia where the company was opening a new facility. He jumped at
the opportunity and the four of us moved to Georgia. It was a huge adjustment
for all of us, but we eventually adapted to our new southern life.
Unfortunately,
my parents divorced in 1985. There was not a specific reason why - just
two people going in opposite directions. He battled a brief bout with skin
cancer in 1987, but was cleared after several radiation treatments. My
father left the Torrington Company around 1989 to pursue a similar career,
just on his own.
He
re-married in 1991 to Gloria Fordham, a Georgia native. A wonderful woman
with whom my sister and I are still very close. In early 1994, he started
experiencing back problems, but attributed it to age and a golf over-swing.
An x-ray revealed a mass on his spine, thought to be a fluid pocket. Surgery
was scheduled to remove the fluid. It was during surgery that the fluid
actually turned out to be a tumor. A malignant tumor, thought to have originated
from his 1987 skin cancer. He saw the most experienced doctors in the country
over the next few months and tried every type of treatment offered, even
experimental, to try to beat the cancer. But it was just too aggressive
and he passed away in July 1994.
He
loved sports - especially golf and skiing. Did I mention golf? He lived
to play golf? In the early 1990's, he founded and hosted an annual Christmas
charity golf tournament and was very proud of how much the tournament grew
each year. Proceeds from the tournament benefited a local home for runaway
teenage boys. He tried to get to Colorado at least once a year to ski.
He loved the beach and would schedule a family vacation every summer on
the beach. His two golden retrievers were his pride and joy.
 He
had many friends, most of who still write or call me just to touch base
or reminisce about him. He was just one of those people that commanded
a room when he entered. You either loved him or hated him - there was no
in between. He was very charming, stubborn, and opinionated - all rolled
together with a sensitive side. He loved to dance, listen to oldies or
jazz, and thought of himself as a wine connoisseur (but he really wasn't).
He
loved classic TV, especially Abbott & Costello, the Honeymooners -
but The Three Stooges was his favorite. He spoke often of his high school
days and all of the fond memories he had during that period of his life.
One of his flaws was that he loved to reminisce and spoke in endless details
about his high school days, but failed to keep in touch with those he often
spoke of. He was a wonderful father and treated my sister and I like queens.
He was a very involved father (sometimes too involved) but I cherish the
memories we had with him. He now has two grandsons, Dillon and Derek, that
he never got to see - but they certainly know about him. We all miss him
terribly.
Jim Kenure, November
1993
...buddy, athlete,
sweetheart, husband, father
... a great man.
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